Testimonials Human Design & BG5

Looking at my children, I hoped for a long time that they did not encounter the bumps in their path that I struggled with myself. Wanting to protect and feeling fear of what they face. The guilt that mothers can struggle with.
After my introduction to Marlien’s human design method, I slowly felt a calm in my life. As if I suddenly understood!
The child I used to be, myself as a parent, as a partner but especially as myself now. I wish my children this path. And everyone around me. in different ways I sought to deal with the inevitable difficulties or valleys we encounter. Now I know that you don’t have to lose yourself, that a beautiful instruction manual is ready early on, for everyone. For yourself, for your partner, your parents, siblings, colleagues girlfriends and friends.
As a sister, I have always been down-to-earth and perhaps sometimes sceptical about my sister’s development. I have been objective and critical.
Marlien, with her calm, patient appearance, gave me time and worked out my instructions and read them to me. Told me at my invitation about my precious energy, my precious gold, how best to let it flow. She made me learn to recognise my gut feeling, to listen to it. Learned with very small practical tips how to answer my big life questions myself. How to clear doubts myself, how to understand restlessness and become calm again. How I can now turn my sometimes emerging sense of compulsiveness into understanding, into peace. How I learned to understand disagreements between me and my partner. She taught me how my human design, tells me how I react to others’.
Her never judgmental, neutral attitude gave me space and time to discover it for myself. In a pleasant way, she explains. With clear examples or comparisons.
I enjoy the skill she has developed. How she deploys her energy in the best possible way. And how she enjoys it herself.
Even more, I enjoyed the explanation of my three children’s human designs. Much laughter at the understanding that ensued as she explained the different human designs to me. Why all three of them react differently. To parenting and to each other. Enjoyed how I discussed the different approaches with Marlien and then put them into practice. How incredibly magical and at the same time so logical when you recognise how each child sails each individual on a different approach. How you can recognise how children can decide and react from their healthy selves. How beautiful to be able to let them do that because you know that is their way. The way that is fixed in their own human design. How it helps not to confuse them by asking more questions because you think you have to, but to give them the confidence to decide from their feelings or intuition because you know it suits them.
Or can actually tip the other child to ‘give it time’ and watch the calm descend over her.
When you learn how best to use energy you also learn when it costs you. A beautiful process emerges. With Marlien’s expertise as my facilitator, I was able to take beautiful steps. Taken by myself. Lately also in my work.
I think it is an art how with her humility and her expertise she lets you learn and walk your own path. She teaches you to read the map, she is a dear fine friend and sister with an energy that I grant everyone to get to know.
I wish you joy while reading your own instructions. Walking your path with your own unique roadmap.